The game started three years ago. Pulling him in with charms was the part of it but not lesser then the punching him away by aloofness. She kept him puzzled (not the happy puzzled) all this time. Then enter my careless character. I got sucked right to the center of this drama. He fell for me as he has fallen for her. Difference is I was aloof whole time. But she has aloof and the charm (yes a plus one ingredient compared to my unity). At the end he went with her taking away my aloofness with him and handing me all the blame.